‘Mating, Marriage & Divorce’ Archives
Are Boys Stupid?
I did three Chapin’s INFERNOs today. The one that will most to the MND faithful is “Are Boys Stupid?” The second and third concern Revenge and Forgiveness. Hope you like them, Bernard
US suicide rate increasing: Largest increase seen in middle-aged white women
While the article cant say why, many people may realize that when you get bad life advice, like the kind your family would not give you, but feminists are willing to, then your life may not turn out the way they dictate. After all, all the assertions of feminism have been blind assertions looking for proof. Though as we move forward in [...]
What makes an ideal woman?
This is a bit frustrating. The articles title is "what makes an ideal woman?", they claim six authors will tell you their score on the situation. HOWEVER they dont tell you that there is a seventh author squeezed in at the end to quickly inform what the ideal man would be, that way the feminists get to have their snarky responses appended to [...]
Be honest: we all love the sexist alpha male
More and more we are seeing articles, and science that debunks and causes problems for feminism, and left wing ideological "truths". What is clear is that more often, we are seeing a view that maybe the bad old days are better than the good new days will ever be. Follow the link to read the interesting comments from both sides. Be honest: we all [...]
Men’s brains are ‘better connected’
Well, It's about time. After 40 years of junk science with feminists claiming equality but better, and flipping any positive quality to being a positive quality only if women do it, and inconsequential if men do. This type of feminist logic really had its biggest push in things that they could paint sounded better. They would say, we have a [...]
The Parasite Syndrome
gen+y1.jpg Most of the women and men I know are hardworking. For example, my wife, Dr. Barbara Nemko, Napa County Superintendent of Schools, works 60 hours a week while being a good wife and mother. However, over my 23 years and 2,900 clients in my career counseling practice, in my out-of-work conversations, and in reading trend pieces in the [...]
Explaining a genetic disorder’s unique shift
Recent findings in genetics have shown a very interesting effect from fathers to their children. While a rare condition PWS (Prader-Willi Syndrome) is thought to be the leading cause of genetically caused obesity, its effects can be mitigated by the participation of the father. So our cultural changes may have led to the expression of negative [...]
How David Got Manipulated into Marrying
The client who just left my office--we'll call him David--said that his girlfriend--we'll call her Vixen-- got him to marry her with such statements as: "The problem is your fear of commitment." In that ploy, Vixen pathologized David's decision, which invoked in him a sense of insecurity and guilt. In fact, as David and I discussed things, it [...]
The Resurgence of Gold Diggers
I've previously discussed that in the past decade, I've seen a great increase in the number of my female clients and friends who would like to not work and, instead, find a guy who'll support them. That anecdotal experience has been supported by the spate of recent books on how to find a rich husband, a seminal New York Times article and a more [...]
Why Men are Said to Rule the World
Grace, one of the regular commenters on this blog asked me to opine on why men rule the world. Glad to oblige: To the extent that more men have leadership positions, it's overwhelmingly NOT because of some male-erected glass ceiling. It's because more men than women are willing to trade work/life balance and do what it takes to get and succeed in [...]
